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"What's Daddy, Chopped Liver?"

Niko is going through his mommy attachment phase. I can only remember mine because of the animosity it created between me and my mom. I think my mommy attachment phase as a kid ended badly, Basically I resented my mom a lot, there was an incident where I told the class I hated her when I was a discussion about it with my mom when I was around grade 1. I can see how a bad removal of attachment can go, in my own childhood. I could not relate with the missing mommy feeling until I became a dad and I missed niko's mommy. Seeing Niko cry and cry when his mom leaves made me realize that the resentment was a coping mechanism. There is no easy way for him or me when i was a younger to grow into understanding the sense of abandonment even if it was only for a day. A day, which is to a baby a very long time. We  learned he can be distracted and heavily engrossed in play. He has that single minded attention I have that frustrates my wife when it is something that interests him...

Long Term Goals, other than Certification and Higher Education.

Long Term Goals, other than Certification and Higher Education. Learn Mandarin (current) , Begin with being able to read and write some characters while accumulating as many hours as possible listening to mandarin via Suzuki Method applied to languages. Hopefully in 3 years I'm able to get around in a mandarin speaking country without any english. Learn the Memory Room Technique. Learn the Blindwriting Typing Technique Learn Sign Language. If there is a data glove that can synch to my phone and I can use gestures to type, learn the techniques to make those gestures. Be wealthy enough to higher a BPO to make the apps for that. Be able to type on the go with gestures. Underlying goal is to Do Office Apps on the Go on an Smart Phone.